I think I told this story before but I once saw Social Distortion and the singer guy, whats-his-face, asked for the youngest kids in the place. the crowd picked up 2 kids, 5 and 7 (ish) and surfed them to the stage. mom didn't seem to have any problem with that at all. looking around an average "punk" show, I don't know if I would dig my kids being manhandled by a bunch of yahoos at 6' off the ground.